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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You aren’t going because you have dinner reservations?

Obviously, you don’t need to go, and you can do what you like, and your BIL shouldn’t pressure you, but your reason seems to be a dinner reservation.

I can see why he is hurt.

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He’s hurt because he has a personality disorder and the rest of the family accommodates it. That said, unless OP wants to go to the grave hearing about this, she needs to cancel the dinner and send her DH to Australia. [/quote]

If OP had said "One of our kids lives overseas, and will be in town that weekend, their siblings are flying in as well." I would have had sympathy.  But the most important part of the weekend seems to be that the restaurant is fancy.  After she snarks about her future SIL considering a cathedral for her wedding.

I'll also argue that planning a second wedding 4 weeks in advance doesn't read personality disorder as much as planning a birthday party so far in advance that someone else got orders to move overseas, moved overseas, and is coming back before the party does.  
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