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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are truly free and full of joy, why post about it and spend more of your life on talking about a toxic relationship to strangers?  You still sound enmeshed. [/quote]

Because it feels fantastic!

You did not have to read this post. You can make a decision not to comment, not to read, etc, etc. Are you the same poster who keeps posting critical comments?

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NP. That PP isn’t entirely wrong though. I always find the DCUM discussion t on estrangement and cutoffs to be fascinating because in my real life, the only people I know who have done this tend to be both unhappy and highly dramatic. I’d never describe them as full of joy, at least. [/quote]

There are probably happy people in your life who just haven't shared with you going low or no contact. Very few people know I am low contact other than people I have been friends with since childhood and my husband and kids. Most people only share it with those with whom they feel safe.[/quote]

That might be true. But the ones where I do know, they are the opposite of full of joy. And you can kind of tell when someone has gone no contact or low contact if you know them well enough to hear about grandparents, etc. [/quote]

That is incorrect that you can tell if someone has gone low or no contact. Many of my friends don't know I am low contact or that I have a mentally ill family member.

People who have been abused are not all full of joy. Each human is an individual and will have a different experience and a different reaction to those experiences.

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