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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I didn’t sleep with anyone until we were exclusive.[/quote]

+1 and I'm a man. Can't enjoy being intimate with someone until we know each other well enough to have the exclusively talk.[/quote]

I wouldn’t agree to being exclusive without determining our sexual compatibility [/quote]

DP.

So how many times do you sleep with someone to determine you are compatible for exclusivity?

When I was dating, it took about 2 months to know if someone was right for me. Two months is not a long time to devote to one person. I moved on after two months if the person was not right. Never felt the urgency to date more than one person after a couple of dates. It was either not worth it after 2 dates or 2 months.

I don't see how people are not sure if they want to marry someone after two years. But I agree that if it took me 2 years to know if someone was a good fit, I'd definitely not be exclusive until 6 months in. You'd have to date a lot of people at the same time to go through as many guys in the 2 years of dating as I went through  every 2 months.[/quote]

2 months is nothing to me. It’s a timeframe to show only communication and conflict management ability.
 Real hidden things or long term obstacles come to surface when passion subsides, and people show who they really are, it’s about 6 months. Relationships that last more than 6 months end up very long term to me. [/quote]

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