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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Omg it’s not like she whipped out a calendar. Many of my friends with club memberships are desperate to take others because they have minimums, or want friends to join so everyone can hang out together in the club. [/quote]

Many clubs do not have minimums. Please do not assume when you go with a friend. We recently had guests with us and spent over $200 on their family. The following weekend we all went out to a casual dinner and they asked us to split the check. We did so but later I casually told her: hey when we go to the pool, there’s a guest fee of 25 per person and we pay for the food at the restaurant. Let’s be sure to split that next time.   [/quote]

You sound poor[/quote]

No. She sounds like she’s no longer naive. I don’t belong to a CC but have had people take advantage of my generosity so I’ve also had to develop this muscle that prevents others from walking all over me. Especially for people from generous families or cultures, it can be a real surprise to realize others will take advantage as long as you let them. So now I don’t and neither does PP.[/quote]

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