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[quote=Anonymous]My xH and I had this dynamic. I nagged and yelled a LOT. But like PPs have said about this dynamic, he was basically useless at home and needed constant reminders, nagging, and follow-up to get anything done (and I didn't even have crazy expectations, at one point his sole responsibility was to pick up our dog's poop from the backyard and he would literally go weeks without doing it, to the point the neighbors complained of the smell because the yard was FILLED with poop).

We split and are both much happier. I need someone who takes initiative and has higher standards, he needs someone more go-with-the-flow who is okay with the trash piling up for a couple weeks because he forgot it's trash day.

I think the reason we waited so long to divorce was 1. Thinking we needed to stay together for the kids and 2. Scared we wouldn't find someone else and would be alone. Ultimately it's been better for our kids to have 2 peaceful households than 1 stressful household, and we both date people we're better matched with.[/quote]

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