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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: I don’t think I will get alimony-as I work even though I make less than half of what he does. Also, how do you deal with your emotions related to the betrayal if you stay without expressing yourself? Maybe I am being too emotional here..[/quote] Do you have a lesser paying job but added more value to your house - more work, more work the kids, etc. that has value and that is protected, so you will likely get half of his pay minus half of your pay (so if he makes 200k and you make 80k, he will have to give you 100k-40k, so 60k. That way you both end up with the same amount. Also child support will come your way if you get custody. Start to keep track of things that will help you, meet with a lawyer and start to save/hide money if possible. Get your own cc now so you have build credit! [/quote]
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