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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: I make enough for a decent lifestyle but not enough to support kids education along with it. Relying on the group to see if someone was in a similar situation and what did they end up doing?[/quote]

No one will necessarily be in the exact same financial position with kids the same ages.  You should get specific legal advice for your particular income/assets/circumstances.

I pushed to divorce my lying, cheating ex, because I made the bulk of the income and my income trajectory is up from here, whereas his was stagnant.  Plus, I was tired of seeing my income go to gifts for his girlfriend while he was checked out of family and home life and I was paying cleaners and lawn guys to maintain the home front.  He got 50% custody, which is great both because he is a much better father than he was a husband, and that gives me more time for myself than I had for a decade.

He also got 50% of the assets, and I pay child support.  No alimony though.

If I dicked around and waited to divorce I would for sure have had to pay alimony.[/quote]

What sucks is that he has been a great dad, great help around the house.. makes more than me, and will continue to rise, but was emotionally disconnected and then I discover this..[/quote]

Don’t file for divorce and don’t provoke him. Get in your best shape of life, change jobs, if you need ti make more. Many affairs dissipate on their own but it may take 5-7 years

I only divorced my exH as I walked away with $5m and he was obligated  to pay for college by our postnup.

Don’t put your kids in worse financial position until both graduate college [/quote]

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