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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: I make enough for a decent lifestyle but not enough to support kids education along with it. Relying on the group to see if someone was in a similar situation and what did they end up doing?[/quote]

No one will necessarily be in the exact same financial position with kids the same ages.  You should get specific legal advice for your particular income/assets/circumstances.

I pushed to divorce my lying, cheating ex, because I made the bulk of the income and my income trajectory is up from here, whereas his was stagnant.  Plus, I was tired of seeing my income go to gifts for his girlfriend while he was checked out of family and home life and I was paying cleaners and lawn guys to maintain the home front.  He got 50% custody, which is great both because he is a much better father than he was a husband, and that gives me more time for myself than I had for a decade.

He also got 50% of the assets, and I pay child support.  No alimony though.

If I dicked around and waited to divorce I would for sure have had to pay alimony.[/quote]

What sucks is that he has been a great dad, great help around the house.. makes more than me, and will continue to rise, but was emotionally disconnected and then I discover this..[/quote]

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