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[quote=Anonymous]I don't believe in soul mates. The women I know who are happily married will be happily married even if you switched their spouses. I don't even know what happily looks like for men so can't answer from their persoective.

There is a lot of luck involved in marriage, but people who tend to marry well are people who are honest with themselves about what they want in a lifelong partner. A lot of people just go with the flow and choose based on what society wants or what their family expects. And people who are honest with themselves don't pretend to be someone else so they tend to attract people who like them just the way they are.

It gets more complicated if one is worth millions of dollars since  people with ulterior motives flock towards them. It's also complicated for women who are extremely attractive because men will love bomb them and move heaven and earth to get them and then reveal their true colors. For these two groups of people, they have to be more careful with choosing someone.

For most of us average people, we need to be honest about what we want and who we are. And we need to be ok with not getting married if we do not find what we are looking for. Once you are okay with not getting married, you move faster through the mismatches and increase your chances of coming across a good match. Add a little bit of luck, and we are good. [/quote]

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