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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Any chance he felt like when the first kid was born, he stopped being special and felt like he could do bo right, in your eyes, once the transition to parenthood took place?

It sounds like you both feel unseen and unheard, he quit trying and you got angry and resentful.  Counseling would be best since it sounds like there is a lot of history behind your post and both of you are harboring significant resentment towards each other.[/quote]
A man that is jealous of his child is a disgusting POS. [/quote]

Your interpretation of that comment was not how I meant it, but I can see why you read it that way.   I should not have danced around the point- OP- did you have post partum depression or completely neglect him, unless you were complaining, after the birth of your kids?   It is very common and he may feel like he has been enemy number one since he became a father, so the relationship is more adversarial than a partnership in his eyes.

Hope that cleared up the miscommunication.[/quote]

OP here.

I had PPD after our first. Fine after our second. Feel decent after third, I think I'm just more sad that my marriage finally seems to be ending. Not related to hormones, though.[/quote]

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