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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Never had a partner I cared so deeply about. I always knew people cheated and I expected it.
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so sad.  this is what I fear my kids will think about life after their dad abandoned us for a mistress.
I grew up in a healthy home with secure attachments to my family and a true belief and conviction that marriage was a commitment forever.  It was nice to have complete trust in people.  Very sadly, my husband destroyed safety, trust and security for me and our kids for life. Even our friends are shaken by his betrayal.
Adultery/affair/abandonment is one of the worst  things in life you can do to a family[/quote]

Oh grow up. Look in the mirror and think about why your husband moved on. Take some responsibility for your shortcomings.

That especially hogwash for his relationship with the kids. If you don’t embrace joyfully your ex-husband’s former mistress, now girlfriend, then you’re undermining your kids. The kids love you, their father, and their eventual stepmother. Or they SHOULD, unless you poison the relationship because the kids are afraid to hurt your feelings. Then what kind of weaklings will the kids be when they grow up? Wallowing in empathy for everyone else rather than taking care of their own business first.

Let the kids be kids, kids who love their mother AND their father.[/quote]
are you the triggered delusional mistress?[/quote]

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