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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Spouse stopped seeing me, caring about who I am, never cared about my goals/dreams. Went to zero emotional intimacy, but maybe it wasn’t even fantastic to begin with. Then he let himself go. Then we started arguing about politics and I realized we have completely different values. He gives zero effort and shut down my (albeit humble) attempts to reconnect. It’ll probably kill more than our sex life in the end. [b]I’m still attractive, fun, and interesting.[/b] He just DGAF anymore and then acts shocked when I tell him I’m unhappy, which I have done maybe every 9 months for the last 3 years.
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Attractive, fun, and interesting, huh? Should have added modest as well. And before you reply with "I am just being honest", consider if your DH would post that he is also still attractive, fun, and interesting.

You post that he let himself go. To what extent? Likely, your DH is not in the same shape he was when you got married. However, are you in the same shape you were when you got married?

There are likely several reasons why he "DGAF anymore" that you have not listed. Hypocrisy kills marriages as well.

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