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[quote=Anonymous]I told him the only way he gets a lot of sex is I feel wined and dined and dated. Fair??

So you want him to pay for sex with wine and dates? Because that's literally what you said, and most people don't consider that "fair" in the context of a marriage. You're welcome to set your standards/fees wherever/however you'd like, but you're getting the feedback you asked for.

Also? "feeling wined and dined" isn't a thing someone else does to/for you. If you need an escape from yourself or your perception of yourself, which is what that is, do that for yourself. If you were habitually a "wine, dine, have a good time" kind of person, you may need to learn how to have good sex as yourself instead of putting on a role or being tipsy/drunk. Learn how to romance yourself. You're responsible for your own pleasure. The request for time alone to cultivate this is reasonable. The dynamic of "the only way he gets a lot of sex is if he pays me in booze and dates"... isn't great.[/quote]

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