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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the MOG for a couple who is having a 65-person destination wedding. The destination is a family vacation spot of the brides; their family has been going to for many years. I have never been to the location which is 6.5 hours from my home. I offered to pay for the rehearsal dinner (and some smaller value items), which all 65 of the guests would attend. I was told of one option for a venue, that did not take reservations, so I asked if the couple could consult with their wedding planner for other venues as I was uncomfortable with taking that risk for 65 people that are all travelling for the weekend, my DS told me the planner was not hired to give suggestions for the dinner. I'm kind of hurt at that remark, is that typical these days?[/quote] Every planner and every contract is different. Some people are more accommodating while others stick to the what they agreed upon. Don't hold it against your son or DIL. May be call the place you wanted to book and offer extra $$$$ to reserve or ask DIL's family for suggestions. You can always google options. This isn't a time to get yourself labeled as the difficult MIL when that's not who you intend to be.[/quote]
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