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[quote=Anonymous]I think men / boys who have been shown love and respect and taught they are worthy and values and appreciated are more likely to treat others the same way. I have taught them how to treat others but also to only accept respectful treatment and not to be with anyone who doesn’t respect and love and support them the way they should love and respect and support others. They have seen role modeling of men expecting respect and treating others with respect. We also extend that to how to treat anyone and how power and privilege can corrupt and create advantage and disadvantage.

They also know to watch out for women who see them as a wallet and to avoid anyone who expects them to pay for dates and buy them a lot of gifts. Yes they know how to cook and clean and know that they are not to expect a woman to do the domestic work either. They know that no means no both ways and  no try to change anyone and avoid anyone who tries to change them.

I think it’s a combination or role modeling, teaching them how to treat others and teaching them how they should be treated. Men who have been treated badly tend to treat others badly so the importance and giving and getting respect is paramount. [/quote]

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