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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Usually if they have the social cluelessness to ask for something inappropriate, you mustn't feel bad saying no, and ignoring all of their emotions after that. And keep in mind that autistic people often don't have a good sense of what's socially appropriate or not. My husband is the sort who asks. Usually he doesn't mind when people say no. He also doesn't understand that people might be uncomfortable at saying no, because in their shoes he wouldn't mind declining. [/quote] 2 types make inappropriate asks for large favors from people where there is not a close relationship and mutual help-the socially clueless and the socially manipulative. You know what you are dealing with when you see how they react to you gently, but firmly saying no.[/quote]
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