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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband calls his parents every Sunday. I stand right in front of him while he’s on the phone and mouth “visit this summer.” Or I stand over him while he writes the text. I decided that I felt my obligation to my ILs was that I made sure they saw the kids 2x per year. Both DH and ILs are passive about planning (which drives me batty), but I know it’s important to them to see each other. So I just hound my husband and try not to resent anyone. Any additional visits, presents, communication, etc. is on him. [/quote] Oh hell no. Become a nagging B to my husband because he doesn't want to see his own parents?! FFS Let it go, let it go... This is harming your own marriage which comes before any other relationships. Wives should not nag their husbands. And if they need to, it better be worth their while over things that matter. [/quote]
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