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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I HIGHLY recommend the book “ the Self Driven Child” by Dr . Bill Stixrud and Ned Johnson, both of whom happen to be in the DMV area.

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The main premise of the book is that you should let your child make their own decisions ( within reason) and not to micromanage your child. [/quote]

You know I parent a lot like that book recommends, and I have one kid who is very easy going but hard working, and one who is incredibly self driven.  And I kinda thought it was a product of my parenting choices.

My younger sibling raises their kids in a much more intense, parent driven fashion.  Some might say "micromanaging", but I'll use more neutral words.  Their kids? One is very easy going and hard working, and one is the only kid I know as self driven as my youngest.

So, now?  I'd say I have no idea if the concepts in the book make a difference.  [/quote]

I also agree I’m not sure if it’s because of the book, but I followed it and have 3 self-driven children including 2 boys. If nothing else, I can say it didn’t hurt. There are specific points in time where I remember my telling my kids they can go farther if they want to. I remember the looks of things clicking and desires forming. It was all very novel.

They have big dreams and work hard for them. However, they are also ok with setbacks. For example, one son has his heart set on CalTech, but I think he’ll be just fine if he doesn’t get in.[/quote]

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