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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Stop justifying your bad behavior and get a divorce.  You don't love your spouse if you are cheating.[/quote]

So you’ve never hurt someone you loved? Ever?  It happens.  People make mad decisions all the time.  We’re imperfect. I’m not defending it but this refrain that all cheaters must not love their spouse just ignores that humans make mistakes.[/quote]

NP. People do accidentally hurt people they love. If you [b]intentionally[/b] hurt someone, then you don't love them.

No one "accidentally" cheats. [/quote]

You only hurt them if they find out…so you rationalize it that as long as they never know, you didn’t hurt them.

Former AP and I are still friends and the one thing is that we will forever have this secret between us, where now there is someone else that knows more about us than our spouses. We are emotionally closer now because we can tell each other everything now that we have this bond of something only the two of us know.[/quote]

Not as deep as you think it is.  Mainly just knowledge of how your moral compass works or doesn't, with a mutual non-aggression pact laid on top.  The rest is just sex-based bonding which isn't very unique.[/quote]

We are best friends at this point because it’s easy knowing we can tell each other anything without judgement. [/quote]

A great cheating success story! [/quote]

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