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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would advise her it’s a bad area and let her make up her mind. In college friends and I stayed in plenty of sketchy places I wouldn’t now going on vacation and survived. [/quote]

OP- I posted several times that I DID offer to pay more towards a better hotel, and I think posters are not seeing it somehow because  they keep advising to do what I already did. I already gave her money for the trip as well, plus she has savings. Her friend has less money. At this point all the cheapish options in better areas are booked so it'd be an extra 500+ for me to pay. I would not be happy about it (considering she has 2k from me already and that's after flight I already paid for) but if they felt strongly about it I would pay it. Instead they have the opposite attitude and do not seem concerned. So it's a real struggle for me figuring out how much to press.[/quote]

Why is this a struggle? You are done. You said your piece, she heard you speak, enough. If you hassle her, this is the last time she'll tell you about where she's staying.

Sincerely,
Someone whose mother is like you[/quote]

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