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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks for the honest feedback. I love my husband but, honestly, it's more like a great partnership, not a deeply romantic connection. I have had work husbands in the past, but i have always remained platonic -- it's more about the "light" companionship and, in the case of this guy, the harmless "fantasy." Due to personal issues, I must admit I enjoy affirmation and attention. I guess I am naive but my take is that, if I don't acknowledge the vibe they may be sending me, nothing is going to happen. I am also quite conservative, which is why I dislike the idea of affairs.

But I see what you are saying. It's just a company that I enjoy very much and that, to this point, has remained harmless. I'd be very sad to lose this connection. [/quote]

OP, you’ve lost the plot here. Sorry.

You’re defending a lot of things without understanding that that stuff you’re giving this guy should be being put into your marriage. You complain about a loss of connection with your husband …. While connecting with several “work husbands”.

You need to decide what you want, although what you seem to want is this, without consequence. My xDH wanted that too, until he got caught. You’re on the brink of both it going way too far. And getting caught. It’s fine if it’s what you want, but end your marriage and start up with this “work husband”.

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And F off , honestly and without respect, with your repeated apparent “dislike of affairs”. If you’re sneaking around, you’re in one already, although what some people would call an emotional affair. You’re pouring into other people what sounds like should be poured into your marriage, under the guise of a travelling DH. You’re not as conservative as you’re trying to convince yourself you are when it’s a stream of “work husbands”. [/quote]

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