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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dh told me he expects sex from me because he gives me a comfortable life. [/quote]

Sorry - hit post too soon.

DH and I had a very active sex life before we had kids. That naturally slowed down once we had two kids. DH has gone out of his way to make my life easier - very hands on, hired night and day help, sends me to a spa for a relaxing massage or day out for myself, etc. He has been really irritated with the lack of sex and wants more. He said that’s his only want and ask and it isn’t too much because he gives me a lot in return. I [b]hear him but I don’t like feeling like I owe him sex because he’s a good husband.[/b] [/quote]

Serious question for you to consider, op, after you re-read the part in bold:

Why do you think he owes it to you at all to stay married to you, when you won’t have sex with  or “don’t like feeling” like having sex with him?

To put it bluntly:  what’s in it for him to stay in an increasingly-sexless marriage?

You can stick to your feelings op.  That’s fine.  Don’t expect him to abandon his feelings though.  And do the surprised when he divorces you for someone affectionate.[/quote]

I have a 3.5 month old and an almost 2 year old. We have sex twice a week and I give him full oral completion once a week. I don’t call that sexless. [/quote]

When I was 3.5 months PP, I still had a lot of pain during sex dye to pelvic floor weakness as a complication of labor and then our kid went through a sleep regression and was up every hour. I can't imagine someone demanding sex 4 times a week from someone with a 3.5 month old.[/quote]

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