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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dh told me he expects sex from me because he gives me a comfortable life. [/quote]

That sounds like my FIL.
He was born into wealth, he gave MIL a comfortable life and he expected sex on the regular.
He was passed over for leadership in the family company. He was childish, would pout if he didn't get his way, I believe he hit her once or twice. He sat on his expanding arse most of the time. This man was loathe to get up on his feet. He would put her down regularly to feel good about himself.
I don't know when MIL realized she married a petulant child but she put up with and and regularly put out for him.

I have wondered if FIL stayed in his comfortable coccoon because he thought everything was OK in his marriage - because his wife was still having sex with him. As long as she was having sex with him, he didn't need to try to be a partner besides throw money at the marriage.
But I know for her it was a chore.
Did he really believe she enjoyed it or felt compelled in this marital transaction? At some point, he probably stopped caring what she thought which is probably around the same time he started calling her dum-dum and dinglehead in mixed company. It was probably the same time he stopped caring about much of anything beyond his own self-indulgences. 
She felt a lot of conflict, but also loyalty. He entirely took advantage of her loyalty.  Although he loved her like a spoilt child would, she pitied him.
Is this the stuff of true partnership? 
I don't know.[/quote]

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