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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lots of people divorce, for lots of reasons. Reasons first marriage could have failed that you might give him a pass on:

Adultery 
Financial infidelity
Mental illness
Drug or alcohol addiction
Youthful folly
Differing values that were not exposed before the marriage
etc.

You don't say why he divorced before. Do you know why?[/quote]

He was married at 28 and divorced by 30. Said all his friends were doing it and the girl he married wanted marriage. [b]He realize 6 months into the marriage he didn’t want to stay married and then got divorced[/b]. [/quote]
Yeah duh, why did he get dirvotced? Because he didn’t want to stay married.

So WHY didn’t he want to stay married or stay married to her?

Does he answers answer key questions by rephrases the words? [/quote]

He told me it was a number of things. She was pushing for kids right away, her mom was very much in their business, her family tried to dominate his weekends with Sunday dinners. He felt like he didn’t have much say because she ran everything by her mom and her sisters. [/quote] Ouch. He's a blamer. While that may all be true, I would want to hear what he felt his role was in the relationship. What did he learn about himself from that first marriage? Anyone who puts it all on their ex is waving major red flags and I would run. If he's been divorced for 6 years that is ample time to have done some work on himself. Doesn't sound like he has.[/quote]

Agree. The issue for me isn't that he is divorced . The issue is that 35 years old it seems he  takes no responsibility for  anything. He got married cause his friends were. The marriage ending was all her fault. Come on! He sounds like a child.  Does he take responsibility for anything OP/ In your relationship now when you disagree or  he does something that upsets you does he take responsibility or  does he blame?[/quote]

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