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[quote=Anonymous]Just because someone is divorced. It doesn’t mean that there is something wrong with them.

My DH was divorced when I met him. He had just been married to the wrong person, that’s all. He grew up in Fairfax, Virginia, and works for the federal government and just really wants to be here. And his ex-wife was climbing the corporate ladder, and really wanted to live in Europe and work in one of the offices there for her company. He didn’t want to do that, and she filed for divorce. No kids, had only been married three years … no harm no foul. They just wanted different lives. The divorce was simple and amicable. Not to say that it wasn’t painful emotionally, but it was simple— not even much arguing about who got what.

I’m thrilled that they ended up divorced, because it means that I got him. We have been together over 20 years, and I feel like I hit the jackpot. He couldn’t be more perfect for me. He feels like he won the jackpot too.

Sometimes a divorce is a big red flag. The person is divorced because they are, well, awful. But sometimes a divorce just means that people ended up wanting different things and went their separate ways. And that person could end up being perfect for you.

The trick is knowing the difference.[/quote]

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