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Agree with PP. Seems age appropriate. [/quote]

Probably not to the women. Especially since most of us ARE there to work out no matter what we are wearing. Don’t approach us. We aren’t here to socialize.

If a woman wants to interact she’ll start the conversation. And asking about a machine or exercise is not flirting.

OP. I’d say it’s ego. At some point those gpas learned dramatically younger women aren’t receptive to them. [/quote]
Thanks! I guess my real question is, why isn’t the 20something guy flirting with the beautiful 40something? I realize it’s subjective, but I find the 40something absolutely stunning when compared to the younger 20something, plus she’s likely more confident and experienced (?) so you’d think the guys would be more interested in her? FWIW, I’m in my 30s and super average. It’s just interesting to watch. [/quote]

Are you asking why young men don't chase older women? [/quote]
I guess in this context, yes. See above. [/quote]

I think it's pretty well understood that young women tend to be attractive to both young men and older men. I guess if you want some psychological explanation it could have something to do with fertility, but probably really it has something to do with wrinkles.
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And confidence.

Personally my body language reads not available. I don’t get approached unless I want to be…except for men that can’t read women at all. Which is usually older divorced men. [/quote]

I'm sure you're very good looking. But do you really think that if you presented yourself as just that much more available, these 20 something guys would go out of their way to flirt with you instead of other young people? I think very highly of myself, too - I'm 51 - but I think that's frankly delusional! Maybe we all need a little delusion to get through the day - or maybe you're just that appealing! [/quote]

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