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[quote=Anonymous]Career nanny here. One thing I would consider is that child care is just part of being a nanny. Being able to coordinate with the parents, helping run a household, and working as a team on stuff like sleep schedules, discipline styles, rules around food/screens/etc. are also important. Additionally, this person will be in your home daily which is a very intrusive role and they will need to be able to share that space respectfully and considerately. Being a nanny can also be a very lonely job and not everyone is cut out to be a self-starter or to spend all day alone with young kids. I would always advise parents to think carefully before hiring someone to be a nanny who has never been a nanny. It sounds like the teacher/nurse has also worked as a nanny. Was that full time? A pro in her column is that she has had to work diplomatically with a wide variety of parents so she has a lot of experience with different parenting styles, rules and preferences and will know how to balance sharing her opinions with respecting your role as the parent. For the mom, she definitely knows how to spend a day with young kids, but I would be concerned about having someone who would potentially judge or push back on household systems or rules that don’t come naturally to her.[/quote]
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