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[quote=Anonymous]The problem is that with a lot of people standing up for yourself ends up hurting you. They can't take it, call you some name for calling them out on their issue, etc. They might tell another friend I am high maintenance or some other slight. I've done something like this where I say once that I really like to make sure we are on or say I am not sure because I want to be sure I have plans Saturday night. After the first time if I don't get some sort of response that makes me feel my needs are really heard I willdl do a slow fade if it happens again. Most or the time I am their b or c level friend and they are using me by canceling on me if something better in their eyes comes up so they actually appreciate the slow fade so they can consider me a friend without any effort. They can't handle any discussion and simply don't care enough to care about fixing the issue. [/quote]
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