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[quote=Anonymous]My H and I are amicably divorced. They have asked that we don’t invite them to things with our significant others. They want a relationship with us not our SO. They are not saying they never want to see our SO. For example my H’s SO. Came to Thanksgiving dinner at my house But for every interaction with the SO present they would like a few without We don’t vacation with the SO, we don’t visit them with the SO. For me it was easy my SO (quite frankly) doesn’t care one way or another. Hrs not like we need to be one big happy family. He’s like go be with your adult kids and grandchildren I’ll be here when you come back, Women OTOH take these things personally. Women tend to want to be “part of the family”. Perhaps the GF gave off the I’ll be a bonus mom vibe But I would not just drop it at 1 letter I’d go visit your daughter alone and ask her what a relationship she wants with you looks like.[/quote]
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