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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A married guy doesn’t have to buy dinner or gifts or spend much time at all with a married woman cheater.  He can blame she can’t accept these gifts or her husband will find out.  He doesn’t have to pay for meals because she can’t be seen in public. If she has kids her time is limited. He doesn’t have to text or call except to set up sex because she’s got a family. Often he doesn’t even have to pay for a hotel.  It’s a free prostitute for a guy in a way a single AP would not be. [/quote]

It’s not a prostitute if she is getting as much out of it as he is. It’s two people who have no good coping skills coming together either because they’re not thinking about consequences or because they have thought about it for a long time and found no other way to cope. The entire premise that women don’t enjoy and need sex to feel loved and connected is so wrong and misogynistic. She probably tried to connect to her own husband for years before stepping out and now she’s on a path of destruction but instead of looking at the situation realistically we are going to deny the fact that men have deep emotions and need to be “seen” and the fact that women need love WITH sex, and instead we are going to blame the woman in an affair (or marriage) for everything as usual. And we’re going to get the same outcome, dysfunctional people and societies.

I watched my best friend go down this path and we were able to pull her from the brink but I completely understand what pushed her into seeking acceptance, desire, etc. elsewhere.

Just yelling insults at people is not going to change things.[/quote]

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