I'm a woman, and if I were a cheater I would not loan my husband my iPad that contains sexually explicit email messages to my side piece. That seems really dumb- divorcing someone that stupid and taking half of everything is like shooting fish in a barrel.

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Anonymous wrote:Women without a doubt. Deception and lying comes naturally to women and the other women in their lives will all cover for them without question. I've seen it. Men are dumb and will brag to other men, or just show signs of undeserved happiness that their wives can easily pick up on.

These women fail to understand that they think married men are safer…but they are married to women who will find out and notify their husbands. It does not matter one bit how good they are at lying and deceiving and having zero character…there is another woman they have never met that holds the power to knock their world down.

You assume that women, or any cheating spouse is always hooking up with another cheating spouse. That's not the case maybe half the time with women. They will hook up with unmarried men who want uncomplicated, NSA sex. I know because I'm one of those guys and I have a few single friends who also get with married women from time to time. No jilted AP is going to blow up anything in my life.

Ashley Madison and the like are designed for married people affairs. The net is filled with idiots talking about “mutually assured destruction”, how they are safer than single people because they both have something to lose. It is the most ridiculous mind fk as what they fail to see is instead of one family/set of kids being destroyed, now two families are imploded. And, yes, these women cheaters are idiots because the woman of the spouse they are banging will find out and she’s going to be irate and out to protect her family which means ratting out the ho to her husband. Selfish and disgusting scumbags.

I think you all forget how easy it is to be extremely careful these days with the internet. People don’t even use their real names. Nobody is going to someone’s work/home. Literally unless you knew the person before hand (work, personal life etc) no personal info is shared-ever. I think the people getting caught are people who are actually treating it like a real relationship-going out on dates and things.

If they are meeting over and over- they share names. They most certainly do. For very short term- sure—fake. But in these no-strings ongoing things they know real names. They even know kids’ names, spouses’s etc

No, this is not always the case-at all.

Not always, but many do. The first thing I asked my ex was why the fk would you give your real name? They both did after meeting in person.

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Anonymous wrote:Women without a doubt. Deception and lying comes naturally to women and the other women in their lives will all cover for them without question. I've seen it. Men are dumb and will brag to other men, or just show signs of undeserved happiness that their wives can easily pick up on.

These women fail to understand that they think married men are safer…but they are married to women who will find out and notify their husbands. It does not matter one bit how good they are at lying and deceiving and having zero character…there is another woman they have never met that holds the power to knock their world down.

You assume that women, or any cheating spouse is always hooking up with another cheating spouse. That's not the case maybe half the time with women. They will hook up with unmarried men who want uncomplicated, NSA sex. I know because I'm one of those guys and I have a few single friends who also get with married women from time to time. No jilted AP is going to blow up anything in my life.

Ashley Madison and the like are designed for married people affairs. The net is filled with idiots talking about “mutually assured destruction”, how they are safer than single people because they both have something to lose. It is the most ridiculous mind fk as what they fail to see is instead of one family/set of kids being destroyed, now two families are imploded. And, yes, these women cheaters are idiots because the woman of the spouse they are banging will find out and she’s going to be irate and out to protect her family which means ratting out the ho to her husband. Selfish and disgusting scumbags.

I think you all forget how easy it is to be extremely careful these days with the internet. People don’t even use their real names. Nobody is going to someone’s work/home. Literally unless you knew the person before hand (work, personal life etc) no personal info is shared-ever. I think the people getting caught are people who are actually treating it like a real relationship-going out on dates and things.

If they are meeting over and over- they share names. They most certainly do. For very short term- sure—fake. But in these no-strings ongoing things they know real names. They even know kids’ names, spouses’s etc

No, this is not always the case-at all.

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Anonymous wrote:Women without a doubt. Deception and lying comes naturally to women and the other women in their lives will all cover for them without question. I've seen it. Men are dumb and will brag to other men, or just show signs of undeserved happiness that their wives can easily pick up on.

These women fail to understand that they think married men are safer…but they are married to women who will find out and notify their husbands. It does not matter one bit how good they are at lying and deceiving and having zero character…there is another woman they have never met that holds the power to knock their world down.

You assume that women, or any cheating spouse is always hooking up with another cheating spouse. That's not the case maybe half the time with women. They will hook up with unmarried men who want uncomplicated, NSA sex. I know because I'm one of those guys and I have a few single friends who also get with married women from time to time. No jilted AP is going to blow up anything in my life.

Ashley Madison and the like are designed for married people affairs. The net is filled with idiots talking about “mutually assured destruction”, how they are safer than single people because they both have something to lose. It is the most ridiculous mind fk as what they fail to see is instead of one family/set of kids being destroyed, now two families are imploded. And, yes, these women cheaters are idiots because the woman of the spouse they are banging will find out and she’s going to be irate and out to protect her family which means ratting out the ho to her husband. Selfish and disgusting scumbags.

I think you all forget how easy it is to be extremely careful these days with the internet. People don’t even use their real names. Nobody is going to someone’s work/home. Literally unless you knew the person before hand (work, personal life etc) no personal info is shared-ever. I think the people getting caught are people who are actually treating it like a real relationship-going out on dates and things.

If they are meeting over and over- they share names. They most certainly do. For very short term- sure—fake. But in these no-strings ongoing things they know real names. They even know kids’ names, spouses’s etc

Anonymous wrote:A married guy doesn’t have to buy dinner or gifts or spend much time at all with a married woman cheater. He can blame she can’t accept these gifts or her husband will find out. He doesn’t have to pay for meals because she can’t be seen in public. If she has kids her time is limited. He doesn’t have to text or call except to set up sex because she’s got a family. Often he doesn’t even have to pay for a hotel. It’s a free prostitute for a guy in a way a single AP would not be.

It’s not a prostitute if she is getting as much out of it as he is. It’s two people who have no good coping skills coming together either because they’re not thinking about consequences or because they have thought about it for a long time and found no other way to cope. The entire premise that women don’t enjoy and need sex to feel loved and connected is so wrong and misogynistic. She probably tried to connect to her own husband for years before stepping out and now she’s on a path of destruction but instead of looking at the situation realistically we are going to deny the fact that men have deep emotions and need to be “seen” and the fact that women need love WITH sex, and instead we are going to blame the woman in an affair (or marriage) for everything as usual. And we’re going to get the same outcome, dysfunctional people and societies.

I watched my best friend go down this path and we were able to pull her from the brink but I completely understand what pushed her into seeking acceptance, desire, etc. elsewhere.

Just yelling insults at people is not going to change things.

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Anonymous wrote:Women without a doubt. Deception and lying comes naturally to women and the other women in their lives will all cover for them without question. I've seen it. Men are dumb and will brag to other men, or just show signs of undeserved happiness that their wives can easily pick up on.

These women fail to understand that they think married men are safer…but they are married to women who will find out and notify their husbands. It does not matter one bit how good they are at lying and deceiving and having zero character…there is another woman they have never met that holds the power to knock their world down.

You assume that women, or any cheating spouse is always hooking up with another cheating spouse. That's not the case maybe half the time with women. They will hook up with unmarried men who want uncomplicated, NSA sex. I know because I'm one of those guys and I have a few single friends who also get with married women from time to time. No jilted AP is going to blow up anything in my life.

Ashley Madison and the like are designed for married people affairs. The net is filled with idiots talking about “mutually assured destruction”, how they are safer than single people because they both have something to lose. It is the most ridiculous mind fk as what they fail to see is instead of one family/set of kids being destroyed, now two families are imploded. And, yes, these women cheaters are idiots because the woman of the spouse they are banging will find out and she’s going to be irate and out to protect her family which means ratting out the ho to her husband. Selfish and disgusting scumbags.

I think you all forget how easy it is to be extremely careful these days with the internet. People don’t even use their real names. Nobody is going to someone’s work/home. Literally unless you knew the person before hand (work, personal life etc) no personal info is shared-ever. I think the people getting caught are people who are actually treating it like a real relationship-going out on dates and things.

A married guy doesn’t have to buy dinner or gifts or spend much time at all with a married woman cheater. He can blame she can’t accept these gifts or her husband will find out. He doesn’t have to pay for meals because she can’t be seen in public. If she has kids her time is limited. He doesn’t have to text or call except to set up sex because she’s got a family. Often he doesn’t even have to pay for a hotel. It’s a free prostitute for a guy in a way a single AP would not be.

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Anonymous wrote:Women without a doubt. Deception and lying comes naturally to women and the other women in their lives will all cover for them without question. I've seen it. Men are dumb and will brag to other men, or just show signs of undeserved happiness that their wives can easily pick up on.

These women fail to understand that they think married men are safer…but they are married to women who will find out and notify their husbands. It does not matter one bit how good they are at lying and deceiving and having zero character…there is another woman they have never met that holds the power to knock their world down.

You assume that women, or any cheating spouse is always hooking up with another cheating spouse. That's not the case maybe half the time with women. They will hook up with unmarried men who want uncomplicated, NSA sex. I know because I'm one of those guys and I have a few single friends who also get with married women from time to time. No jilted AP is going to blow up anything in my life.

Single women are more dangerous to a married guy because they have nothing to lose and will stalk him to leave his wife. Married women are much safer only for men because the men know she is going to be careful and busy and he can rat her out of she starts stalking him. But, yeah, for women there is no reason to bang a married guy with so many available horny guys out there.

There are women on Medium who devote their writing to exactly that^^^. Cheating on AM and “special ops”. It’s absolutely disgusting and they think they are so cute and crafty using military terms to describe their deceitful whore behavior and helping others cheat.

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Anonymous wrote:Women without a doubt. Deception and lying comes naturally to women and the other women in their lives will all cover for them without question. I've seen it. Men are dumb and will brag to other men, or just show signs of undeserved happiness that their wives can easily pick up on.

These women fail to understand that they think married men are safer…but they are married to women who will find out and notify their husbands. It does not matter one bit how good they are at lying and deceiving and having zero character…there is another woman they have never met that holds the power to knock their world down.

You assume that women, or any cheating spouse is always hooking up with another cheating spouse. That's not the case maybe half the time with women. They will hook up with unmarried men who want uncomplicated, NSA sex. I know because I'm one of those guys and I have a few single friends who also get with married women from time to time. No jilted AP is going to blow up anything in my life.

Ashley Madison and the like are designed for married people affairs. The net is filled with idiots talking about “mutually assured destruction”, how they are safer than single people because they both have something to lose. It is the most ridiculous mind fk as what they fail to see is instead of one family/set of kids being destroyed, now two families are imploded. And, yes, these women cheaters are idiots because the woman of the spouse they are banging will find out and she’s going to be irate and out to protect her family which means ratting out the ho to her husband. Selfish and disgusting scumbags.

Women - they are much better at lying and gaslighting others.

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Anonymous wrote:Women without a doubt. Deception and lying comes naturally to women and the other women in their lives will all cover for them without question. I've seen it. Men are dumb and will brag to other men, or just show signs of undeserved happiness that their wives can easily pick up on.

These women fail to understand that they think married men are safer…but they are married to women who will find out and notify their husbands. It does not matter one bit how good they are at lying and deceiving and having zero character…there is another woman they have never met that holds the power to knock their world down.

You assume that women, or any cheating spouse is always hooking up with another cheating spouse. That's not the case maybe half the time with women. They will hook up with unmarried men who want uncomplicated, NSA sex. I know because I'm one of those guys and I have a few single friends who also get with married women from time to time. No jilted AP is going to blow up anything in my life.

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Anonymous wrote:Women without a doubt. Deception and lying comes naturally to women and the other women in their lives will all cover for them without question. I've seen it. Men are dumb and will brag to other men, or just show signs of undeserved happiness that their wives can easily pick up on.

These women fail to understand that they think married men are safer…but they are married to women who will find out and notify their husbands. It does not matter one bit how good they are at lying and deceiving and having zero character…there is another woman they have never met that holds the power to knock their world down.

Exactly this. I suspected my ex husband was cheating months before I gathered enough evidence to confront him. I notified the other woman’s husband and he had been completely clueless - literally had no idea anything was amiss.

Anonymous wrote:A woman cheats will only be caught if she wants to be caught because 99.9% of men believe that their wives will never cheat on them. Ion the other hand women do t trust men so their antennas are up all the time.

She’ll be caught when the wife of the guy she’s fkg discovers the affair and notifies her husband with details/timeline/evidence he can’t ignore.

A woman cheats will only be caught if she wants to be caught because 99.9% of men believe that their wives will never cheat on them. Ion the other hand women do t trust men so their antennas are up all the time.