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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][twitter][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I fear for anyone stupid enough to take that literally. A solid marriage is an equal partnership, not split down the middle 50/50.

I like the idea of one partner is primarily responsible to bring home the bacon, while the other one’s primary responsibility is to manage the home. Neither one is better than the other. They both help and support each other.

What’s not to like?[/quote]

This only works if you go back to the "good old days" where wives were fine essentially being treated like the help and you never left your husband over affairs, physical abuse, etc.  Also, it's not easy to find a husband that brings in a ton of bacon that is looking for this kind of wife (who tends to not be college educated or ever had a real career to start).[/quote]
Duel career parents have to farm out their parenting responsibilities. It takes a lot more than bacon for children to have a healthy childhood. Who exactly loves your child as much as you do?

Most young people these days are suffering with extreme alienation. Why?[/quote]

Oh FFS please don't turn this into another SAH vs WOH battles. PLEASE!!!! This has nothing to do with that.[/quote]
Please stop with the SAH fat lie. No one stays at home unless you’re on your death bed. The SAH term was concocted by absentee mothers just to make themselves feel better about dropping their babies off at daycare. Again, no parent stays at home.[/quote]

Are they raising these children on the street? Inside of Starbucks? Stop being purposefully obtuse and arguing about nothing. [/quote]
Check your compression. I said daycare, complete strangers to whom you entrust your little child for 8-10 hours a day, most often 50 hours every week.

What do the biological parents get? Rushed breakfast, dinner, bedtime, and exhausting weekends overpacked with too much to do. And you ask why so many kids are struggling with mental and cognitive disabilities?

Perhaps degrading the traditional family structure is a big mistake?

To be clear, I am all for anyone who wants to prioritize a demanding career over children. But let’s be honest. No one person gets to do a good job at both at the same time.

It’s all to easy, and socially acceptable to outsource the most essential early years of your child’s life. Children grow up knowing if that was a career choice, or simply the only way to put food on the table.

Of course we love our children, but when they don’t FEEL loved, it’s time to ask why.
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Oh my compression is fine, just got new socks this weekend. Thanks.

How is your COMPREHENSION  though? I was responding to your asinine claim that the term SAH was concocted by absentee mothers who would rather work than take care of their kids. So if you choose to not work, where are you raiding the children if not that at home? So you are staying at home FFS.

Also, maybe you should check your privilege. Most American families are struggling to cover basic costs even with two incomes, much less a single one. For majority of the people it's not a choice. They HAVE to work you dimwit. And they are better off for it and so are their kids. [/quote]

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