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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm an attractive, kind and nice woman (deep in my heart, so I feel uncomfortable not to be reciprocal or accepting favors without giving back). I noticed that when I "use" the guy as a working horse - always ask him to do things for me, task with errands, decline dates that are not posh enough, and otherwise make him "serve" my interests they gets more and more attached. When I treat men nicely (invite over to my place to cook dinner, reciprocate with inviting them for dates etc), they quickly dump me. Like, within 2-3 weeks. But if I remain "mean", they continue "serving".

Did anyone else notice this phenomenon? Or am I a bad picker? [/quote]

Wonder if you're not a bad picker so much as treating higher quality men better than the worse men.  The worse men are competing and the good men are moving on no matter what you do because they have options.  You may instinctively be separating the men and treating them differently.

In my younger days, I rarely dated a woman for more than 3 weeks because I'd gotten what I wanted and was ready for another.  [/quote]

I don’t treat men differently simply because I  go out past date 3 with the very few men whom I perceive as “high quality” for me. Not sure what that means but these are men I’m attracted physically to, we are at least same intellectual level and lifestyle.  That would be 2-3 guys in a year. I don’t sleep with anyone until after a month or two so maybe it’s the opposite: they move on to a lady that jumped him quicker… 
I don’t know, I just date the way I’m comfortable [/quote]

If you aren’t putting out for two months, most men will move on. [/quote]

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