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Why would it be revenge?

Do you really think it'll hurt her feelings if you go out and screw someone who isn't her, after she had her own affair? I think you're a bit naive.

She may actually be relieved if you have your own affair or one night stand, OP. She might just feel that your doing so only proves it's not that bad a thing and the marriage vows mean as little to you as they clearly did to her. She might feel that "I'm off the hook because he did the same."

So be an actual adult and either insist on intensive marriage therapy (if you want to salvage the relationship); or divorce, because as someone else said earlier, you do not divorce your chiildren; or agree clearly and explicitly that you and she are living as only housemates and both of you -- yeah, her too -- are free to do whatever you want as long as the kids don't see the affair partners coming and going from the house.

I think therapy is likely useless since you have this immature revenge mentality; being housemates is a horrid and fake way to live a life; and divorce is the decent thing to do. Better that, than randomly finding some woman to screw, who might develop an iota of actual interest in you, but you're only there for the revenge and the convenient Os you'll also get along the way. Don't be that jerk. This won't really be the revenge flex you think it'll be. Either get serious about fixing things or get serious about divorcing, but revenge sex just introduces more potential harm and might let DW feel she's off the hook because you did the same thing she did. [/quote]

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