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[quote=Anonymous]Let me share my experience. When my first parent died, a friend traveled 100 miles to attend the shiva, not the funeral. That was because she hoped to get business from my sibling. Ouch. We are no longer friends btw. When my second parent died, a friend traveled 200 miles to attend the shiva. I appreciated, but didn’t get to spend any time with her. It was absolutely not expected and I might have valued a separate visit later. We are still friends. My net net: you are obviously going to do something thoughtful, but attending is not it. Will the ceremony be available on Zoom? A thoughtful letter on paper about the parent, or even email, I guess, that is specific may be treasured and something only you can provide. [/quote]
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