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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Went to dinner to celebrate narcissist MIL’s birthday. Over 20+ years of being with my spouse, I’ve basically learned to distance myself/gray rock her, and it generally works fine in terms of no drama, etc. We only have occasion to see her about once/month and DH also doesn’t want more interaction with her than that. During dinner, DH mentioned family members that apparently have gray rocked MIL.... Now I’m left wondering, is someone like her (a classic narcissist) clueless as to how terrible they are? [/quote] DH was fine. Selfish people are not always clueless. It is simply exhausting for everyone to deal with them. I'd need a searchable document/spreadsheet open during each conversation for 1 individual. Level of terror for me re Thanksgiving escalated 1000%. No out unless as hosting a household member gets covid, flu, etc. [/quote]
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