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[quote=Anonymous]Something I noticed dating 40s men, whether they were dads or not, is that they really were “open” to having more kids.

Meaning, in my 20s/30s, men often REALLY wanted kids. Getting married and being a dad was a top priority.

But once they hit middle age, it was more about finding the “right” woman and doing basically whatever she wanted. Usually the “right” woman meant someone the exact opposite of their xW, and usually younger.

And most of the time, having more kids wasn’t that big of a deal for them because they didn’t see kids as a huge deal - they weren’t the ones giving birth and taking care of the kids. So why not have more, it’s not that hard, right?

Unfortunately the men I know who did remarry young and have kids because that’s what the woman wanted ended up in the same boat again. A wife who resented them and lost all interest in sex because she was doing everything. So most ended up with a second divorce. A few got it together and realized had they just done that in their first marriage, things would have been fine. [/quote]

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