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[quote=Anonymous]OP I have a mindset similar to your husbands and my DH and I have this talk all the time. Based on my upbringing (poverty level), taking on a large debt gives me anxiety. I want to shoot for way lower than we can afford because it is mentally more enjoyable/relaxing for me than amenities of a more expensive place would be. Maybe get your spouse to explain his approach/comfort level to you (without the numbers) and then make a plan that alleviates his concerns while getting you more of what you want (any outstanding debts paid off, more in savings, a verbal agreement that you won't switch or downgrade jobs until x goal happens, etc). [/quote]
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