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[quote=Anonymous]OP, this site can be toxic at worst, snarky usually, and occasionally a place of great comfort. I  have been on the receiving end of good wishes sent earnestly over the wires, and am glad to send them to you now. We need each other, we all do. If I knew who you were, I would show up with some Trader Joes supplies, enough for dinner and some snacks, and sit and watch Project Runway with you. I wish I could. I hope your "real life" friends are, or your husband, or your Mom. Those people were such a comfort to me.

When we lost our much-wanted, much-worked-for daughter at 11 weeks (after 8 rounds of IVF), I didn't know how to go through the motions of daily life. It seems absurd to still need to grocery shop, bicker with health insurance, deal with petty issues. But there was no escaping life, and though I sometimes sit and think about her, I am mostly ok. I didn't think that would be possible, my little dream daughter gone, but I'm okay.

If this all goes to hell for you, it will be awful. It will be excruciating. And you will heal. Whether you want to or not. Time passes. Love remains, and so does sorrow, but time passes and we heal.

I'm sending you all my best. Really.[/quote]

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