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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My kid played on an MLS Next team for two years before quitting - prior to starting high school.
He had lost his passion for soccer, and he started to resent that all his time outside of school was dedicated to practice and weekend games.
He was a starter, had positive experiences with coaches, liked his teammates though wasn’t super bonded with them.
Since quitting he has played three dif HS sports though not soccer.
Hats off to the kids and families who keep up the travel soccer intensity into HS.[/quote]

Your kid quit in Elementary school before serious soccer even began
What intensity was there to keep up mwith at U12 and U13? [/quote]

MLSNext is U13 and U14 for the first years so middle school (7th and 8th).  DS MLSNext U13 and there are 30+ games for the year, some weekends two games. It’s a lot. Unless you want to play high level D1 or pro, it’s a lot to ask from a kid [/quote]

You're saying if you have goals and ambitions it's not a lot.
But if you don't, it's a lot?[/quote]

NP here, I think PP is saying that if your highest priority goals and ambitions relate to soccer, it's reasonable to expecting the kid to spend a huge portion of their weekends on soccer.

If your kid has other goals and ambitions that are higher priorities, expecting them to give up a lot of their weekend time to something that isn't their highest priority is a lot.

I have two kids who were serious athletes in middle school.  One knew by the end of middle school that sports weren't his highest priority.  He had the potential to play in college, but not the desire.  So, he plays varsity, but not club.

My other kid wants to play D1, so arranging his schedule around his sport makes sense.  He was a soccer player, but found another sport he loves more.[/quote]

Then why was the kid in MLS Next at U12 and U13 if they had other goals and ambitions other than soccer?[/quote]

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