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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm kinda torn about this. I want to be the sort of person who says "believe the victim" and would shun an abuser.

But my abuser goes around telling everyone I was the abuser. For all the PPs who said they'd know, they can spot even covert abuse, etc., my experience has not held that up at all.

I would continue to support whoever you were closer to. If that's the person alleging abuse, that makes it an easier decision. If I heard my "friend" was an abuser, I'd confront them. My real friends confronted me when they heard my ex's allegations, only to hear a completely different story, with receipts, about how the inverse was far more accurate.

It's a messy situation all around, and I completely understand the PP who was like "just get new friends". Breakups are tough on friend circles. Toxic/abusive relationship blowups are even harder.

Good luck, OP.[/quote]

Great points, seen them before too.

The abusive narc wastes no time bad mouthing the Ex and blaming others.

Ask them yourself. [/quote]

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