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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She may be trying to help and what you consider pushy, she considers helping and she's asking so she can support the choice you make.  OP, nothing wrong with formula.  Don't fall into the breast is best thing.  You cannot tell which babies are breastfed vs. formula.  Try a mix for a while and let your husband do the formula feed, you do the breast.  You being happy, sleeping and relaxed is best for baby.[/quote]

If I hadn't seen and heard her talk crap about my sil's bf journey I might try to believe she's being helpful. But it's more she's trying to prove something. We are supplementing with formula and donor milk and I can pump 10ish ounces a day right now. So it's definitely a combo. And we are still latching with a shield and before bed and naps. Just chugging away while we decide on the tie revision or any other interventions. I do need to sleep more..[/quote]
You are a mom now. Your husband is a father. I’m sorry you are having a difficult time but yall need to grow the F up and tell MIL that you are not discussing this and stick to it. That lady is causing far too many problems. When she starts, get off the phone. At next conversation, continue as usual unless/until she starts up again. You need to grow backbones; how will you raise and advocate for your kids?[/quote]

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