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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I haven't been in this position so my thoughts are just musing but....you wont ever "forget" what happened and your marriage will never be the same. Some people come out better on the other side and some can't get there. Only you will know what's right for you and I suspect it will take time and there wont necessarily be consistency in your feelings, but perhaps there will be a day, one day, where you wake up and you either have come to a peaceful acceptance that is not tinged with sadness or you know intuitively that its time to move on.

Probably the question you are trying to answer for yourself is can you let it go enough to love and be loved by him again. And deep down do you trust him--not just not to have another affair, but to be there for you when you need him. The next 2 decades are the ones where issues like illness, retirement, kids launching and moving, death of parents, etc, happen and having a partner can really help get you through these transitions--but only if the partnership is strong.

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Thank you very thoughtful input [/quote]

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