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Reply to "Anyone tried for some time to get over a spouse’s infidelity and you just couldn’t? "
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[quote=Anonymous]"Getting over it" is a loaded term. But something has to happen. "Moving on", "rebuilding your life", "getting through it", whatever you want to call it. The best fictional depiction I've seen regarding marriage after cheating was in the TV show Atypical. Your marriage is at best suspended, if it's not over. Your marriage, if you choose to keep it, and your spouse chooses to try to heal it, will rot unless your spouse understands what they did wrong and does real, long term work to rebuild trust. This is an emotional version being hit by a car. It's not fixed by just apologizing or ignoring it. And divorce is it's own difficult journey back to a stable life. Be good to yourself, OP. You were hit hard, but you'll get through it in time. [/quote]
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