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[quote=Anonymous]Working (single) mom here, and the working moms should remember that life can be lonely as a SAHM. The gym membership may be where she connects/socializes, which is really important in the little kid years. It's also important that she take pride in her appearance. Obviously there should be limits, but the slide into frump can be real if you're not getting ready for work every day. OP I agree with the poster upthread who said pay yourself first and decide on some shared, longterm financial goals for which savings are set aside regularly, then take your hands off the wheel. The WOH DH and SAHM DW can have pretty insidious dynamics in a marriage. Treat her like a partner rather than a dependent. And if she's acting like a dependent, work to change the dynamic. [/quote]
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