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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP again. [b]I think it's unhealthy to think about this in terms of whether your wife does enough and "deserves" to spend on herself[/b]. You are together building a life and a family. If there are concerns about who is pulling more weight in that regard, I would address it separately from your budget. Your DW should not feel like she is "earning" the right to get her hair cut...that will not end well.[/quote] I don’t think who deserves what or is pulling what weight matters. In theory every SAHM should have nice hair, skin care, gym, clothes etc. but in reality people have budgets and have to cut back on a lot of things they in theory should have, but are nice to have, because money is finite. It has nothing to do with how much she is contributing at home. I’m sure OP isn’t out buying everything he thinks he should have.[/quote]
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