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[quote=Anonymous]I posted above about asking our dear friends with a daughter to do this. We had started the process when our daughter was born, and never finalized it, and then COVID hit and it forced us to act quickly. My inlaws, who were not great parents to my wife (although are better grandparents), are not equipped--too old, too emotionally stunted, etc. They were understanding. They were already talking about being too old to get another dog, so they were not exactly thinking they had 16 years of child-rearing ahead of them. And, they're kind of pre-occupied with fighting with each other and worrying obsessively about daily stuff (they talk about medical appointments and spend their days worrying about such things--not exactly the environment we want for her). The siblings are all psychologically troubled and unstable. The most important thing was to have the conversations with the friends (two sets, a primary and a secondary) and make sure they would be the kinds of parents you'd want for your kid. The family you choose, so to speak. [/quote]
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