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[quote=Anonymous]TBH, family members often staywith other family members to save the price of a hotel. There is nothing wrong with that. What is your relationship like separate from these visits? Were you hoping they would bring you closer? I think you should consider these two issues separately. Think about how often they can stay with you for free, and when it might be convenient vs inconvenient. Share those expectations in advance (including how long they can stay). Now separately consider how often you would like to see your sister. Do you ever invite her for visits? For holidays? If not , and you miss such occasions,,,then state that. Now you are resenting putting her up, but not voicing your preferences. That is not wise or fair. [/quote]
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