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[quote=Anonymous]				Wait, op, you canceled several dates, one was the second date with this guy, and one was last night because a coworker went into labor and you had to pick up 2 extra shifts? 
Was the coworker also the reason you canceled the second date, or did you just not want to be on that date? 
If this had been one event, he’d be a jerk for not understanding. Since it isn’t the first date you canceled, and now there’s another one, he’s right to not want to see you anymore. Either you don’t like him enough to make him a priority, or you need to learn to speak your boss’s language. If your boss doesn’t like anybody dating, (I had a boss like that), then you figure out what the boss does like. If sports is your boss’s thing, then you now have baseball tickets, you can work some extra unplanned overtime, but wow, boss the O’s do have some good pitchers this year. Then go see your boyfriend or anybody else you like. 
Bottom line, op, at least he canceled on you. If you do want to see him, level, “I was wrong to cancel our second date, and I won’t cancel anymore”. If you aren’t willing to do that, then don’t be surprised to find that he’s done with you. You have the right to your work environment and to work as much as you’d like, he’s got the right to decide what you are offering isn’t what he wants. A couple months is too soon for anybody to put up with this. It’s hard enough with a marriage where all the weekend work will literally go into a joint account, or you have the warm fuzzy of shared goals. Now, all this guy has is a girl who for whatever reason isn’t able to see him. He’s being a healthy guy, op, you just don’t like that he did the same thing to you that you did to him, in which case stop the behavior and treat the next guy you go out with better. 					[/quote]

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