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[quote=Anonymous]Mine had lots of green flags at marriage, but 20 years later, had a mid life crisis and wanted out of marriage. Although no one could have predicted the MLC, I feel so darn unlucky to have spent half my life with someone who walked away for another person. But the red flag I overlooked was unresolved family trauma. Ex coped for years, but the MLC and the unresolved trauma caused him to have sad seduction with his AP, where both of them bonded around trauma and then the relationship became physical. So I suppose my biggest mistake was being with someone who had not healed from his past but simply compartmentalized it.[/quote]
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